As well, I have to state that the writings are somewhat different
these days compared with what I wrote before. Of course, a lot of the articles today
are very similar to my past approach when I was dealing with "businesslike"
articles on my old website. However, a good number of them are not the same at
all now. They are a lot more personal in nature than before that allow me, dear
reader, to tell you a lot about my life in a manner that I have not done previously.
My whole life seems different as well these days. I don't
mind sharing information about myself in a manner that I have not done before.
I guess I just want you to know more about me because I think it may help you
in dealing with some of the matters in your life. For the better, I trust!
Let me give you one example of how my life has changed in a
manner that seems very significant to me. All of a sudden in this incident, I
remembered what I did about 50 years ago because of something that just
recently had an influence on my life. To
be direct, I was just so amazed about what took place because I have no real
explanation for it happening at all. I am just so pleased though that it did.
I happened to be on the Internet just doing some reading
recently and came across a story dealing with a Judge in Ontario . The Judge's name was Russell
Otter.
The story was a very interesting
one in the University of Toronto Faculty of Law Newsroom:
"The Honourable Justice Russell J. Otter '70 has become
the first Canadian to be selected president of the American Judges Association.
The AJA is the largest judges association in the United States, with more than 2,000
members, of whom approximately 15 per cent are Canadians.
Justice Otter became a provincial court judge in July 1993,
currently sitting at Scarborough Courts. He was elected president of the
Ontario Conference of Judges in 1999. From 2002-2015, he served as
executive director of the Canadian Association of Provincial Court
Judges. The husband and father of two is also a proud grandfather of
five, a marathoner and a long-standing volunteer fitness instructor at the
YMCA."
That was a rather significant role for the fellow who was
the first Canadian appointed to this high position. In reading the story
though, I thought that the name was a very familiar one to me although my
familiarity was with the name "Russ." Interestingly, I read that his
timeframe was exactly similar to mine. He graduated in 1970 from Law School ,
the same year that I did.
I have to admit when I looked at his photograph I did not
recognize him at all. I did some more research into him and found a photo of
him from the past. It looked exactly like one of the fellows I knew so well so
many years before so that it confirmed that we were in fact classmates! He and
I were people who knew each other very well for 3 years because we both were in
the same Law School class at exactly the same time. I have to admit as well that we were terrific
friends during those 3 years because our backgrounds were similar. We dealt
with each other so much and were great classmates together.
However, our lives changed subsequently because I went
overseas for another year for my Master's Degree in Law. To be honest, when I
came back, I really did not speak very much at all with him because I had my
life that I was dealing with at the time that was obviously different from the
one that he was experiencing. We were each doing our own careers. I think that
I saw his name on several University of Toronto Law School matters over the
years that he was involved in but my own life was so different that I did not
participate in them. In fact, I eventually left Toronto
to live in Windsor so that I really did not
participate in very many U of T events in Toronto .
What it really meant to me is that while we were great
friends for 3 years in Law
School , our relationship
changed so dramatically that we hardly spoke to each other for the next 40+
years. I have to admit that I knew very little of him during that timeframe and
was very surprised when I read about his life. I immediately phoned him just so
that I could say hello again to my fellow classmate after so many years.
Regretfully, although I had a terrific phone conversation
with his secretary-- I think that was her position-- we did not speak with each
other in that phone call. He was not in the office but was away on a trip I was
told. I must admit that I wondered whether he would ever call me later or
whether he would just not bother given our separation for so many years. I was
not even sure that he remembered me.
Last Friday, the phone rang in my house. I picked it up and
a gentleman asked if he could speak to me. To be honest, I knew exactly who it
was! Notwithstanding the almost 50 years, his voice was recognized by me
immediately and absolutely as my classmate, Russ Otter! He did not have to
identify himself to me at all. While the photographs I saw on him on the
Internet made him unrecognizable, the voice did not. Nor, was the way he talked
with me different either. He was my classmate that I recognized right away even
though almost 50 years had passed!
We talked about ourselves and our history over the last many
years for about a half an hour until he had to leave to meet some people with
whom he had an appointment. We were so open in our discussions with each other
that it seemed that we had never separated. We knew each other so very well
during our conversation that it was truly amazing. He confirmed with me that he still knew a lot
about me. I truly was so astounded about how well we got along with each other.
I just wish we had met each other a few weeks earlier
because he had just gone through Windsor
a little while ago and we could have met when he came here. He told me that he
expected to be in the Windsor
area about a year from now and hopefully we can meet then. I, of course, told
him that we may well need an out-of-town representative to deal with an American
Judges Association matter here and, if so, I was hoping that he could be
appointed for it.
So there you have it, dear reader. I am so thrilled with what happened. More
importantly, I just can't believe that people who haven't talked to each other
for half a century are still such good friends!