Monday, July 22, 2019

Just Another Blog



I thought that I would write a little bit more about what is going on with me these days. Please do not ask me to explain any of this. It just seems so unusual about what happened but which turned out so remarkably. Let me share some of these incidents with you.

These days, I am not really under a lot of mental pressure or worries because nothing is going to happen for a few more weeks. My feelings are not all that serious right now. Nevertheless, there will always be in my mind something that I have to deal with until I visit with the medical people again and find out when my radiation process starts. Hopefully I can get rid of any cancer difficulties that my body now has after forty days of radiation treatments.

Forty days! It seemed so bizarre to me about the number of days of treatments I have to receive. Why does it have to be so many of them? Why do I just not get a few big radiation treatments and everything will be finished early? I must admit that I am going to have to ask my doctor about that when we meet again. I did not ask him about it when we first met because I never thought about it at the time.

Each session is supposed to be about an hour a day because that is what the length of my appointment will be. In reality, he told me that, if everything is fine in each of the sessions, the real amount of time is about twenty to thirty minutes. It should take about a few minutes to undress to go into whatever is required for the radiation treatment and then to dress up again. The treatment itself only lasts about a minute or two but would take also a few minutes to make sure that I am in the right position before it is started.

As you can tell, because I only get five treatments each week, it takes eight weeks or about two months for all of my treatments to be completed. The problem with this was a very small matter yet one that was quite serious from a practical perspective:

How difficult was it going to be to find a place to park?

The number of hospital parking spaces around this area is relatively small. When I first came there to meet my doctor, there were no spaces available and I had to walk a considerable number of blocks away from the hospital because there were so many cars taking up parking spots on the street. It took about 15 minutes or so in each direction. It was very hot out this day so it was a sweaty walk.  I was not too pleased thinking about all of this especially considering that the temperatures might be a lot colder in the fall when I was going to be taking my hospital treatments.

However, dear reader, as you will see I was blessed. I remembered that a friend of mine lived in the area, very close to the hospital itself. Given the concern that I now had, I contacted him to ask if I could park in his driveway when I attended each of the hospital visits. Graciously, he said “yes” and said that he would organize whatever I needed! Now that was fantastic.

Let me tell you about another story that just happened.

I am dealing now with a new company that will be looking after some matters for my family. I had visited with a number of potential companies with whom my wife and I could deal. Naturally, when we first started looking for such a company, we were not in any big hurry. After all, I had not received any negative news about my health.

Well, that all changed. Fortunately, my wife and I had already decided whom we wished to retain. Accordingly, we were able to go to that company and tell them that they were now going to act for us. And also, we had to tell them now about my new medical situation.

Here again is what remarkably happened. It is absolutely amazing to say the least. I met with one of the gentlemen at the company who was going to be my representative there before I received my bad health news. I now had to make him aware of my situation about which I was so concerned. Given my situation, I was not sure if he really would want to act for me anymore.

I did not know a lot about his background and decided to take a look at what he was doing. Obviously, he handled a number of matters outside of the work that he did at the place that we retained. Here though was one that I thought was unbelievable considering the medical news that I had just received. He is involved with people who are dealing with cancer the way I am! 

I cannot explain how this happened nor am I even going to try and do so. It happened to me so positively at one of the most difficult times in my life. I am just so grateful once again. When we met again, I told him about my condition and he was not concerned at all about acting for us.

Lots of other things are going to be happening over the next little while. I am going to have to learn how to deal with them. I will try and do the best I can.

What the heck, I had better get back to writing my Blog news once again and get my life back in order.


Thursday, July 11, 2019

My Good and Bad News



I do need to tell you, dear reader, what happened Wednesday at my visit with the specialist at the Cancer Center here in Windsor. This was the place where I was supposed to go to learn more information about what treatments were needed based on the recent diagnosis.  

My meeting was scheduled to start at about 1 PM. I was told that it was going to take place over at least a three hour time period. The difficult part of it was that I had to drink 4 big glasses of water just before the meeting started since I would have to do some further tests.  I was right, I started at about 12:15 PM to drink the water, completed the tests and then waited to meet my oncologist. 

The oncologist told me directly that I was suffering from prostate cancer and it is one that is more aggressive (Gleason Score of 8) than other kinds.  While that confirmed what I really believed before, I was still upset at what he told me. I did not expect it to be that bad. I just assumed that it really was a “pre-cancerous” situation I was going through and I just had to get some minor procedures done so I would not get the disease. The reality was, I was wrong. 

To be direct, I did ask him about how serious my situation was. I had heard that if I had a really serious case of cancer, my life expectancy might only be a couple of years more.  He was pretty direct with his answer. He thought that my situation was a good one. Nevertheless, there could be problems at the end of this treatment and of course, he could not guarantee what would happen but he felt optimistic. Based on the hormone therapy treatment I had already started from my specialist, which reduces the amount of testosterone in my body, the likelihood of me being successful is approximately 75%.

I was very impressed with him and his ability to make me feel relaxed especially during this difficult time. We spent a good amount of time talking about what I was going through respecting my health issues. In addition, he answered a number of questions that I had about the process that I would be going through and I never felt rushed. I appreciated his genuine care and concern. I also really liked the nurses and just overall staff and volunteers. Everyone was so friendly and being in this atmosphere made the situation less fearful. 

I have to go through 40 rounds of radiation, 5 days a week for about 8 weeks. There will be some testing in September done prior to treatment.  It shouldn't be a long time at each visit.  Although a visit is scheduled for an hour, it should probably take about 20 minutes or so. If there are complications, it could take longer. He went through how radiation worked and how my individual treatment will focus on getting rid of the bad cells, so this information was very useful.  Every person is different, so I will just see how my body reacts. 

Now you know what my situation is and what I will be going through for the next several months. I intend to maintain a very positive view of what will happen and what my result will be. 

And don’t worry. You will hear about it too!

PS. The walk to and from the hospital from where we parked this time was a lengthy one. Thankfully the weather was warm, but it was still exhausting due to the heat. There wasn't a single spot available in the lot or around the area. Since we will be going 5 days a week, I am wondering if any of my friends who do live by the hospital (near Kildare Ave) would allow us to  park at their home for approximately half an hour to an hour per day? It may be various times or a specific schedule for the course of my treatments. These issues are still unknown until my next appointment.  If so, please contact me on Facebook messenger or you can contact my daughter, Melissa, on Facebook.

Saturday, July 6, 2019

I’m Baaaaack!




<Gulp> I truly did not realize that I have not written anything on my website for about three months! I knew it was a little while but, seriously, I did not think it was that long until my daughter mentioned that people were asking about me. I did want to keep things private but realized that this was taking an emotional toll on my daughter's health and so I am coming out to share some news.

Here it comes… What is going on with me these days.

Do you want to know something silly? I really was not sure how many people were actually reading my articles. It did not really matter to me if anyone came to my website at all these days because I was really writing for my own purposes as a release from some of the tension under which I was living after my illness.

I am old guy after all and who knows how many years more I am supposed to be around here. Until fairly recently, I felt so healthy that I expected it to be a very substantial number. Surprisingly, I really do not feel much different now but my situation changed significantly after one of my normal cancer screenings. 

I have prostate cancer

It is an illness that many men have. It appears to be in the early stages and localized, which has a better prognosis than later stages.

It took quite a period of time from the date that I had a biopsy done, and then various other tests to confirm the diagnosis. 

So what's next for me? I am booked to see a radiation oncologist at the Cancer Care Clinic on Kildare Avenue here in Windsor in a few days for a consultation. From what I have been told, he is a wonderful man and very knowledgeable in this area. I look forward to meeting him! He will decide what treatment options are best.

There are many forms of radiation available, some which occur every day for a specified amount of time and others that are shorter in duration but more aggressive to treat the cancer cells.  I'm not a doctor, I'm a lawyer, so I will leave it up to the experts to tell me what will be most effective.

The sad part of all of this is that I hope my treatments don't affect my attendance at such an important event coming up. My daughter is getting married in September and I must walk her down the aisle. 


I hope you understand now, dear reader, what caused my Website “invisibility” and I will update again soon.

Wish me luck on my first visit this coming week.