I have come to the conclusion that my life is very different
now. It has been quite a transition, but I feel that although some parts have
come to an end, there are always opportunities to start fresh and explore
possibilities in all facets of life. In this blog, I would like to share with
people some thoughts I've had over the last little while.
As you may have noticed, I haven't written too many articles
this week. It is not that there isn't a
lack of news-worthy stories to comment on, but I don't feel pressured to get
information out. I can enjoy my day and do other activities, and if time permits,
sit on the computer and type for a while. I don't feel that I need to write
something every day just to get people interested in what I have to say. I'm very pleased though that so many of my
friends still come and take a look at what I am writing and often, privately,
let me know their comments. I recognize that not everyone will agree with
everything I say and some people will completely disagree with what I am
proposing. That is okay with me as well. I don't object at all that people take
a different position than I do. In fact, it's quite fun to deal with the other
side's perspective. It may well be that the other person's point of view may
convince me that I am wrong and if so, I will change my mind.
I must admit that with temperature rising so early in the
day, I have to get outside with my wife for our morning walk or else it is
almost impossible to do so. Of course, one can always go to a big shopping
plaza and walk around a lot because their premises are air-conditioned. It is extremely important that my exercise
regime is kept up. I am actually so pleased with the amount of weight that I
have lost, while gaining more muscle. I use something called resistance bands
and have graduated to the next strength stage, which is far more of a challenge.
I also have a new gadget called a pedometer that measures my steps, so that is
fun to use. I have not advanced though to the smartphone stage where I would be
downloading the new Pokemon Go app and running about the city to find the
characters! Ha Ha Ha!
This week, with being limited on what I could do outside, I
had a lot of time to think. Again, as I discussed in articles previously, I
spent months recovering from my illness just to be able to get out of bed. I
was lucky that I had not died. For the last year or so, I had been at the
recovery stage where I have drastically changed just about every aspect of my
life. I love living in Tecumseh and I am overwhelmed sometimes by how friendly
and wonderful the people are around us in our area. Thinking about all the positive things, I
will say that I still had this strange sense of sadness and worry about my
future. I think this is normal after
what I have been through, but I am not used to these emotional feelings coming
on so strongly.
Today is Friday and after spending a lot of time thinking
about myself and about my family and what our future would be, I realized a few
realities and it was comforting to know that at this stage in my life, although
not as secure as I want it to be, I am in a good place. Aside from the basic necessities, I also have
a wonderfully supportive family. We help each other and I feel very empowered
that even with some limitations, I am able to solve problems or at least figure
out a few suggestions, in order to ease stress from a situation.
Although many people have disappeared from my life for one
reason or another, I still do have a good amount of friends who enjoy coming
over and spending time with myself and my wife. I also keep meeting new people.
I had a nice lunch with a local politician and we chatted for a few hours about
a number of different topics. It keeps my mind active and although I am not
politically-motivated to handle any of the big matters anymore, living in
Tecumseh, I want to be aware of what goes on. I am just fascinated by other
people and I was very happy with my meeting.
It is amazing that July is almost over. I think this summer
has gone by quickly, but I know there are more great things ahead in the future
months and I will be ready to share those stories with my readers.
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